~Say What You Mean, or not~

I am all for saying what you mean...but, have now realized that maybe that shouldn't happen in certain situations. Some people need to carefully plan words before letting them run wild out of their mouths...almost like needing a filter. I have been around several people lately that just say how they are feeling, say what they think, and even say things that hurt other peoples feelings...I am really tired of hearing these things...because, everyone needs a filter of sorts...maybe the filter could just be a 30 second delay so that thought can go into the words that are about to escape...or the filter could strain out the mean words so that the information comes across as more politically correct...or, the filter could be DUCT TAPE!!!!!!!!! That could work too...

Now, on the other hand...intentionally keeping information from others is just as bad to me...having important information that could potentially alter another person's day/life/work should not necessarily be filtered...and instead, be upfront, given information...

If we filter the right things, potentially everyone would work and live more harmoniously...potentially, I guess...I might still be a skeptic!

I don't usually even ackowledge quotes from "anonymous" or "unknown" because someone HAD to say it..but, I love this so much that I am going to break my rule...and I never break the rules...haha...RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.